Who are you when everything changes?


Hi Reader,

What happens when the things you thought defined you suddenly disappear? Your career, your money, your reputation. How do you start over?

This week, I sat down with Edward DuCoin, an entrepreneur who knows what it feels like to lose almost everything. After a legal battle turned his life upside down, Edward spent years carrying shame and keeping his story to himself.

We talked about how he found his way forward, learned to let go of constant worry, and began using his experience to help others.

One thing that really stood out to me was this: You are more than the worst thing that has happened to you.

It’s an honest conversation about shame, identity, resilience, and finding hope when life feels overwhelming.

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Take care,
Duane

P.S. If you know someone going through a difficult season or struggling with shame, share this episode with them. A reminder that things can change might be exactly what they need to hear.


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