"The Addicted Mind Podcast" offers hope, understanding, and guidance for those dealing with addiction, with real stories and research to inspire and show the journey to recovery is worth it.
What really happens after trust is broken
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Hi Reader, This week’s episode is a deep one. I sat down with Dr. Stan Tatkin to talk about the neurobiology of betrayal and why it can feel so overwhelming. This is not just about broken trust. It is about what happens in your brain when your reality suddenly shifts. One key idea is this. Betrayal is not just what happened. It is what was hidden. When the truth comes out, it can change how you see your entire past. We also talk about why the brain can go into a trauma response after discovery. Things like anxiety, replaying memories, and feeling on edge are your nervous system trying to protect you. We get honest about shame, too. For the person who betrayed, staying stuck in shame can block real repair. Healing starts when the focus shifts to the impact on the other person. If betrayal has touched your life, I think this episode will help you better understand what is happening and what healing can look like. With you, P.S. If this episode speaks to you, share it with someone who might need it. You never know who is trying to make sense of something similar right now. |
The Addicted Mind Podcast
"The Addicted Mind Podcast" offers hope, understanding, and guidance for those dealing with addiction, with real stories and research to inspire and show the journey to recovery is worth it.
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