What Anxiety Is Trying to Tell You


Hi Reader,

Let’s talk about anxiety.

If you are in recovery, you have probably noticed that anxiety and addiction often travel together.

The tricky part is that anxiety feels like an emergency. Your brain starts throwing out worst-case scenarios, your body gets tense, and suddenly you want relief right now.

That is where many unhealthy coping habits begin.

But here is something worth remembering:

Anxiety is uncomfortable, but it is not dangerous.

Most of the time, anxiety is your brain trying to protect you. The problem is that it can be a little overprotective. Kind of like a smoke alarm that goes off when you all you've done is burn toast.

Instead of trying to make anxiety disappear, try getting curious about it.

What is it trying to tell you?

Do you need rest? Connection? A break? A difficult conversation?

The goal is not to eliminate anxiety. The goal is to learn that you can feel it without letting it run the show.

You are stronger than a passing feeling.

With you,

Duane


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