Finding Wise Effort with Dr. Diana Hill


Hi Reader,

I’m excited to share this week’s episode with you. I sat down with Dr. Diana Hill to talk about her new book, Wise Effort: How to Focus Your Genius Energy on What Matters Most.

Diana’s story about moving from cognitive behavioral therapy into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is super inspiring. She shares how changing the way we relate to our thoughts can open up real possibilities for healing and living in line with our values. We also dive into shame—why it shows up for all of us, and how facing it with compassion can help us connect more deeply with ourselves and others.

It’s one of those conversations that leaves you with both practical tools and a fresh perspective. I think you’ll get a lot out of it.

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With gratitude,
Duane


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