How Families Heal Together: Parallel Recovery with Lisa Smith


Hi Reader,

This week’s episode is a powerful one. I sat down with Lisa Smith, a TEDx speaker and author, who shares her family’s journey through her son’s addiction. What stood out most is her concept of parallel recovery—the idea that families can play an active role in healing by working on their own fears and recovery needs.

We talk about what it means to see addiction as a family disease, why boundaries can actually be acts of compassion, and how families can move from fear-driven reactions to healthier, more supportive interactions. Lisa’s honesty and wisdom really shine through, and I think you’ll find her perspective both hopeful and practical.

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Take care,
Duane

P.S. What do you think? How do you see families fitting into the recovery process?


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