Do your emotions run the show? Let’s talk about it


Hi Reader,

Have you ever felt like your emotions are calling the shots? Like they push you into reactions you didn’t really choose? If so, you’re definitely not alone.

In this new episode of The Addicted Mind +, Eric and I talk about some of the biggest myths people believe about emotions — and how those myths can actually make things harder in recovery. We break down why emotions feel so intense sometimes and share practical ways to respond instead of react.

We also talk about how understanding your emotions can help you make choices that truly line up with what you want for your life. Recovery gets a lot steadier when emotions stop running the whole show.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, shut down, or stuck in emotional loops, I think this conversation will really help.

🎧 Listen to the episode now

Onward,
Duane


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