The difference between quick fixes and real transformation


Hi Reader,

Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the “right” things in recovery—changing routines, cutting out triggers, maybe even quitting a substance—but still not feeling truly free? I’ve been there.

In this week’s episode of The Addicted Mind + Podcast, Eric and I talk about something called second-order change—the kind of deep, transformational work that helps you move beyond just managing symptoms.

We break down the difference between first-order change (the quick fixes that keep you moving but sometimes stuck in place) and second-order change (the deeper shift that helps you actually heal). It’s not always easy work, but it’s the kind that leads to real growth and lasting recovery.

If you’ve been feeling like something’s missing in your progress, this one might really resonate.

🎧 Listen to the episode now

Take care,
Duane


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