From war to recovery to an off grid life in Alaska


Hi Reader,

This week on the podcast, I sat down with Robert “Bob” Stark, and his story really stayed with me.

Bob is an Army veteran, author, and someone who has been clean and sober for 11 years after an 18-year struggle with substance use.

We talked about his transition home after Iraq, the pressure many men feel to stay tough and silent, and how writing became one of the biggest tools in his healing.

What I loved about this conversation is that Bob does not pretend recovery is simple. He talks openly about trying different paths, doing the work, and continuing to grow.

Today, he lives with his family on a 40-acre off-grid farm in Alaska, building a life centered around recovery, purpose, and connection.

One of his biggest messages is simple but powerful. If you feel stuck, start with the basics. Sleep, routine, food, and small daily actions matter.

I think you are really going to enjoy this one.

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More soon,
Duane

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