Can’t stop overthinking? You’re not alone.


Hi Reader,

Have you ever caught yourself replaying the same thought over and over—like your brain just can’t find the “off” switch? That’s rumination, and it can quietly drain your energy and peace of mind.

In this week’s episode of The Addicted Mind + Podcast, Eric and I unpack what rumination really is, why it happens, and most importantly, how to stop getting stuck in the loop. We talk about the difference between reflection (which helps us grow) and rumination (which keeps us trapped), and share practical ways to quiet those spinning thoughts—like mindfulness, movement, and even welcoming the thoughts instead of fighting them.

If your mind tends to replay the past or worry about the future, this episode might bring a bit of calm and clarity.

🎧 Listen to the episode now

All the best,
Duane

P.S. I loved Eric’s line in this episode: “If rumination was an Olympic sport, I’d have a gold medal.” Pretty sure we’ve all been there.


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